Female sexual plastic surgery
In the animal kingdom, Man has a place apart, we know, but it is also the case with regard to his sexuality.
It is the weakest of all mammals and one of the most endangered. His inability to cope with the dangers that threaten his survival is notorious.
Let us try for a moment to put ourselves in the context of the hostile nature that surrounded primitive man: he possesses no natural weapon; no claws, no sharp spurs, no bright, scary color to keep predators away, no shell, shell or venom, no scales, warm fur or feathers, no rostrum, sharp canines neither hooves. He does not perform well in the race, He does not see the night, his sense of smell is rudimentary compared to that of canines or felines. This makes it an ideal prey, can be even tasty for all carnivores.
At its origin therefore, the man is the most threatened species of disappearance at first sight.
How did he manage not only to survive but to grow and multiply?
The explanations are undoubtedly multiple; however, two essential factors emerge:
The first is intelligence, which is undoubtedly the main weapon, the most formidable of our kind. Intelligence, this specifically human faculty that allows us to remember, anticipate, predict, plan, and adapt at the same time.
It is one of the most powerful means of attack and defense and also invisible, undetectable.
This weapon, the man used it first to evade the aggression most often food of its predators.
Later, it was to expand its territory and make disappear or enslave or enslaving the majority of animal species competing with him.
The second is the very peculiar sexuality of our species which also has some singularities in comparison with other mammals:
Regarding the woman, it should be noted that she is likely to mate at any time during her cycle, including outside periods of fertility, seven days a week, twenty-four hours a day, with one or more partners.
In other animal species, it seems that fertility is proportional to the number of individuals in a given space, depending on the resources of the place. Nothing of the sort is apparently observed in humans.
It also seems that sexual pleasure as we know it is also a characteristic of the species in both men and women.
Unlike the animal, in which there is an irrepressible instinct of mating whose cause varies depending on the species: (pheromones)
As for the male of the human species, he is subject to sexual desire throughout his adult life, with particularities or deviances that have historically had no impact on the growth of the species.
The single-egg pregnancy being the rule and the little one of Man being particularly fragile, the survival of the species was conceivable only if no chance of conception and birth were allowed to escape. Hence, comes probably the conquering instinct of the male who feels exhilarated as soon as he sees in his vital space a woman especially if the latter has secondary sex characteristics particularly well developed.
This is where the long work of seduction begins, which will motivate each and everyone, practically throughout his life.
Sexuality in the couple is of fundamental importance; and even better: sexuality with the pleasure that is linked to it. The couple is not only the elementary entity of reproduction, but also of pleasure, Harmony and Love.
It happens, however, that sexuality, which is the cement of the couple and the natural complement of Love, undergo “failures”, does not work as it should, and should be possible to talk about to find solutions. However, sexuality for itself, without desire for pregnancy is still today the object of fears, prohibitions related to our past and our culture.
It is however necessary to break the taboos, to overcome the fears and to let emerge questions for which doctors, gynecologists, surgeons and sexologists often have the answer.
On the other hand, the worst mistake would be to maintain the status quo, letting go of guilt and anxiety that can only endorse and perpetuate the dysfunction or even the degradation of the couple.
Some of these dysfunctions are psychic, cultural, others are authentically physical, related to childbirth, anatomy, or surgical or accidental changes. Others may come from hormonal imbalances.
Each of these disorders can generate a malfunction with “domino” effect.
When a grain of sand comes into the chain of pleasure, failure, even if it is unique, will lead to an individual analysis of each partner. This analysis will not always be accurate, and will ipso facto lead to inappropriate consequences.
The frequency of these problems, combined with the inefficiency of the analysis in most cases, may explain the fact that there is so much confusion in couples who, reunited by Love, should have all that is needed to endure and be happy.
This is why specialists have pooled their knowledge to try to look at sexual dysfunction as a whole and to solve it in all their aspects.
The pivot of this exercise is the sexologist who will on the one hand make a diagnosis of the whole, on the other hand help to restart the couple once the solution found.
Finally the craftsmen of a medical structure are attentive to the most intimate questions, without taboos, and with the most adapted answers so that each one finds his equilibrium in the serenity and the satisfaction of his desires.
Seduction is only a beginning …
Let’s continue the fight, could we add.
For a woman, to seduce the object of her desires is, after all, the childhood of Art. To lure him into bed, to satisfy his fiery sexual appetite, is almost more instinct than culture or science, yet that’s where it all starts, because social weaving begins with the creation of first unit: the couple, and creating a couple, means doing everything to keep the individual seduced as an exclusive partner.
Let’s be at once simpler and clearer: it is not enough to take a man to his bed, he must still be kept, or make him want to come back. This seems basic, but it seems that Western women have some shortcomings in this area, or that they have not thought about everything, or that they have not learned everything.
They have been taught many things, for example to stay attractive for all, to dress, to do their hair, to put on their makeup, to put on their shoes, to perfume themselves, to walk, to laugh, to smile, to look, to suggest, to evoke, to dream. In fact, “we” did not usually teach them anything or not much. It is the consultation of the publications for teenager, then for girls and later for young women that replaces the mother to do this learning.
Where is the mother today? She remains a “young woman” precisely well beyond 60 years, and is therefore positioned as equal to see as a rival of his daughter. In these conditions, why would we want the mother to communicate the secrets she has been able to acquire over the years and after the experiments, or more rarely by transmitting her own mother?
In any case, a “know how” and a “knowing how to be” in love has been lost in the West over the generations.
On the other hand, transmission continues in more primitive, often poorer societies, where the mother at home fully fulfills this role of transmission while giving way to her daughter with respect to seduction except for the father who is now supposed to keep quiet definitely to bring an exemplary and exclusive tenderness to his wife.
What did not these girls tell them about some details of their anatomy?
They know very well the seductive power of their eyes and how to move them; the same thing for the mouth, the smile and the word attached to it; let’s not even talk about the explosive effects of a generous cleavage or even suggested breasts as through a tight sweater with the sizzling evocative variability of nipples just visible at the top of this cone of inexhaustible pleasures. Less obvious is the power of the legs and ankles, whose erotic effect on men emerges from the most recent polls.
On the other hand, most do not know how much the physical aspect of their sex can have a positive or negative magnetism effect related to several factors.
As a cosmetic surgeon, I am asked to modify the nose, the face, the eyelids, the chin, the breasts, the belly, the buttocks, the thighs … .and why almost never sex, whereas it is the ultimate goal of seduction and that it has a quasi obligation not to disappoint?
Can we imagine that Venus’s sex, once conquered, has no more importance, and that his conquerrant does not care about its appearance, its shape, its hairiness, its musculature, its reactivity, its its moisture, its smell, its elasticity under the caress of fingers or kisses? What heresy!
How can one imagine such a thing?
The five senses are concerned in the relation that man establishes with the sex of his companion or his partner. The triviality is not the object of this text, it is nevertheless important to evoke in what way each sense has its role to play in the attachment of a man for a woman which makes it like no other.
Even before the sensory contact takes place directly, the male imagination has been solicited by an infinity of details that trigger both the psychic desire and its obligatory and associated parallel, the physical desire, mostly in the form of an erection.
The Imaginary will evoke the five aspects of the sensory apprehension of Venus’ sex, and he will try during the preliminaries to validate this apprehension. The result of this validation will often depend on the future of the relationship.
Is undoubtedly the sense most immediately concerned by the initial exploration of the sex of our partners. It is usually touch through an undergarment that is sufficiently well chosen to further increase the male excitement: silk, lace, fine fabrics and tight, even adapted to the slippage of caresses, such as satin.
Over the years, this undergarment has been reduced to the extreme until the thong, which today has conquered the majority of women and, say without hypocrisy, to the delight of men.
Nevertheless, the natural restraint of the underwear restores a certain firmness to the biological tissues thus delivered to the conquest of the caress of the male.
At this stage, especially during a first sexual encounter, touch mediates, ie when an element intervenes, usually clothing, usually allows to know if the excitation of the partner has already caused a humidification of the vulva or at least its externalization.
At these beginnings, everything happens as if the man tries to collect all possible information before starting to work around the undergarment, until completely get rid of it of course, to feed the rest of his excitement, which will have to so do not disappoint now that all the artifices have fallen; two are particularly important:
The firmness of the vulva and especially of the labia majora, which are to the sex of the woman what the hardening of the skin muscles of the scrotum is to the man. This firmness, palpable and visible, is associated with the fragility of the nymphs, the labia minora, with the mucosa so delicate, that one will discover offered only when the conquest is acquired.
This fragility, this gentleness, is the symbol of the oblation, of the total gift, of the offering of pleasure. It is at this stage of the beginning of opening and offering that the most resemblance to certain flowers, and especially to the orchid, is affirmed.
The other element, intimately associated with the firmness of the labia majora and the sweetness of the nymphs, is the humidification of the whole which corresponds to the biological language which says: “come, I wait for you, I hope you, I desire you, give me the caresses of pleasure and passion. »
Intervenes in seduction, from the beginning of the approach, and often it is materialized by the application of perfumes, deodorants or eau de toilette.
On their use, the opinions diverge. However, the variety of fragrances is such that their associations, added to the particular and individual transmission of each skin allows an almost individualization of the smells of each.
This olfactory individuality is generative of emotional and sexual emotions, exciting for some, not for others.
Apart from the application of “perfumes”, each person carries his own smell, “sui generis”, like no other, including applying the most rigorous hygiene.
This smell of the partner and its intimate parts alone can generate a strong emotion in humans and initiate preludes, triggering an erection if it was not already done.
During the preludes, then during the sexual intercourse, the sense of smell continues to be a powerful engine to the excitation, of the two partners besides, or mix gradually during the act of Love the scent of perfumes applied and natural smells of secretions caused by the conduct of love games.
This mixture is both complex and variable from one time to the next but very evocative and suggestive. Yet the area of the brain that processes this information is less developed than most animals, including dogs and cats. This does not prevent that in the current of the evolution of the species the Man still has beautiful remains of rhinencephalon.
Yet many Western women behave as if seduction is something definitive, and their sex should be no more than a means of raising children.
But on the contrary, it is necessary to maintain it, to pamper it, to offer it the most delicate attentions, to preserve it, to protect it also sometimes.
Formerly parents explained to pubescent girls that their sex was their most precious possession and that it was only a wealth as long as it was coveted. These principles seem to have been lost over the years, for whatever reason. And it’s a shame, because at the same time girls have lost the habit of preserving their sex as a treasure.
Men on their side are probably a little less stupid in love than they seem, and need to be constantly moved and stimulated by their partner; It is therefore extremely important for every woman to take care of her sex, regardless of her age and her situation so that we can no longer say like Alain Souchon: “this game of dupes, see under the skirts of girls”
After twenty years of exercise, several thousand women examined and operated, I am able and right to say that I have never seen two women have the same breasts or the same sex, unless they are twins. So we must not say that the grass is greener in the meadow next door, but it should not be suggested that all sexes are similar. This is as false as for fingerprints, or the iris of the eyes.
This exclusivity thus makes all the richness of the sex of each woman and must give her the first rank in the order of her priorities and concerns.
In some circles, and I think among other Middle Eastern cultures, we have kept this awareness of genuine maintenance of the qualities of the female sex, and the Arab traditions make that the care is repeated and multiple:
Hair removal of the pubic and labia majora is a tradition, complete or partial, it corresponds to a hygiene and a climate. The warmth of Middle Eastern countries causes considerable sweating, and would require too frequent ablutions. It also coincides with the often abundant hairiness of women from these regions.
Similarly, it may be noted that Western women in recent years are more likely to wax, at least partially than a few years ago. This is probably a fad, but it goes in the right direction, even if the northern climatic conditions justify it less.
On the other hand, this fashion, which corresponds to the generalization of oro-genital practices, also implies a discovery “in the details” of the qualities of the sex thus honored. Hair removal therefore, desirable as it may be, implies “aesthetic” obligations that could be neglected by women preferring to keep an abundant fleece. Indeed, hair removal no longer allows the concealment of a possible hypertrophy of the labia minora, or signs of aging of the labia majora in the form of wrinkles or cracks.